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writes:I dont know if i have a problem or not.I think about sex all the time and would happily spend every waking hour with my fiance just having sex!I am 35 and very atractive (so iv been told).Even after sex i still want more and get frustrated and angry if we go more than a day without sex.I must add in my previous relationship we went for years without sex as my ex had a sexual problem,but i cant get enough of my new fianceand never refuse sex
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (12 January 2012):
 I thinks it's OK to want sex "all the time", but I do think it's a problem if you get frustrated and angry if you don't.
Just because your ex wasn't able to satisfy you as much as you might have wanted doesn't mean your current man HAS to make up for the "loss " of sex those years, know what I am saying?
Sex should be mutually enjoyable, never a chore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): I don't see it as a problem, more making up for lost time. So long as you dont wear out your lucky fiancee then all's good
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): Love, pent up repression coming out as expression. Libido peak. Happiness. Freedom. Discovering your sexuality and feeling comfortable in your skin. Sexy. Empowered.
Seems to be a 'norm' from someone who has come out of a dissatisfied marriage, for your age, and well, being in love.
Congrats!
If you are still overly concerned, stop by Family Practioner and run it by the doc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): If you start showing him frustration and anger, then he will start to see you as a chore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2012): At the moment, it sounds really great to have your problem, since you're with someone who seems to respond to your sex drive, so it sounds like fun :)So I don't think it's necessarily a problem, unless you a) miss out on other important things that you'll regret it in the future, like your work duties etc. b) only have sex with your fiancé because you two couldn't do anything else together, like talking or having a shared interest.I guess I know this feeling a bit.. I can live without sex for months (if I have to, or if I'm very stressed) but then, if I've got good sex once, I immediately start to want to do it again and can become cranky and horny if deprived :) It's maybe a bit like withdrawal, since sex is like a natural drug :)
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