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holley
writes:I feel as if i'm truly in love with my boyfriend the only problem is that im going through love trauma.I fight and throw things when i can't see him. Is it harmful to love a person too much? It's like he got something over me, it's like he likes it when i go crazy over him. Do you have any suggestions on what i could do to have a better understanding of relationships or should i leave him alone, i feel as if hes insecure, could that be....?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (6 December 2007):
Even men experience such and i once asked for help here.I sometimes feel as though i'm going crazy when i don't see my girl.You need to really control yourself because that;s the only solution.You gotta do other things as well such as listening to music and chilling out with friends.You'll only end up depressing yourself.Why he likes it is because it shows how much you love him and it makes him feel good.
Take care.
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reader, ariel  + ♥, writes (5 December 2007):
 It’s because you treat him like a possession .Holley you do not own him he is with you because he wants to be and loves you. You can not control what he does either. When these occasions happen ask yourself before you blow up and chuck things,,,, Why am I feeling like this? What is worrying me? What am I feeling? Is it you fear he is going to dump you? or is it you don’t feel important enough to him? When he says he can’t make a date or what ever, try saying for eg“Aah I am going to miss you, have fun”., instead of fightin. Before he came along what did you do…you had fun didn’t you? So why can’t you still have fun when he is not around.
Holly you have to TRUST him, trust that he wants to be with you. Let go of your fears and love him for who he is. Don’t smother him, if he does things that are disrespectful to you then you will know he is not meant for you
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reader, -Colour-Me-Sober- +, writes (5 December 2007):
 I think I love my boyfriend too much. I shout at everyone when I can't see him and I nearly suffocate him when he's with me. I've just learnt to find things to take my mind off him in my hours of needing him.
But I don't think that it can be harmful, unless you're the jealous type, then paranoia kicks in. But love can't be measured so love him as much as you want!
Good Luck =]
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (5 December 2007):
 When you love someone, there are no limits into how much you can love them. You just have to control the fact that sometimes you cant get things your way and thats what you are probably use to. Try not give into him so much that he gets the wrong impression about you and he thinks he can have you where he wants you. Control those tantrums of yours and accept that you cant always get what you want when you want it. Answering your question, There are no limits when it comes to love and they can make us do some crazy things that are unexplainable.
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