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Is it ok for my husband to flirt all the time.

Q.   MY HUSBAND FLIRTS WITH WOMEN ALL THE TIME, WHAT SHOULDI DO ? IS THAT OKAY FOR HIM TO D SO? ...

A.   1 November 2009: If he cares about you he should practice some discretion at the very least. For me it would not be okay. You do not really elaborate so would doing it back be an option, you know show him how it feels, but yeah if you are not into games I say he ... (read in full...)

How can I retract my foreskin?

Q.   I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...

A.   31 October 2009: I am not sure what you are talking about but am assuming you are talking about your penis. I believe you need a circumcision. Hey all you guys out there how about helping this guy, he's just a baby. Susie, sorry I can not help.... (read in full...)

Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?

Q.   My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...

A.   31 October 2009: Dear trial and retribution I think that is good advice.... (read in full...)

Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?

Q.   My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...

A.   31 October 2009: Are you okay not knowing his password? If something came up and you knew there was information on his account that would give you some insight, (hypothetically), would you still feel the same way? If you are not hiding anything, I am sure he would ... (read in full...)

Is 8 partners too many at my age?

Q.   Im 20 and have been having sex since i was 17. i have had 8 partners and when i told my new bf he looked shocked. he said it was becouse im not loose down there. but i feel like he thought that was alot. is 8 partners at my age to many?...

A.   31 October 2009: The more partners you have the more at risk you are to develop cervical cancer. I had a few partners when I was young and at a very early age 22, I developed full blown cervical cancer. I was lucky. Again I developed cancer, later in life, and ... (read in full...)

I'm so scared for my friend, what can I do to help her?

Q.   I'm so scared for my friend. She's not the kind to open up or anything and when she does it's just cause she really needs to get something off her chest. She recently told me she started smoking and drinking more and now she's talking to me about ...

A.   31 October 2009: If she really wants to do this she will. Do not of course, encourage her, or enable her in any way. Obviously there is something really wrong underneath and some pain she is feeling. This is a way for her to cope. Not the right way but a way. It ... (read in full...)

How can I be more assertive, to people outside of my family?

Q.   How can I be assertive to people outside my family. At school people pick with me a lot and I don't do anything because i'll get nervous and scared. With family people I can get mad and assertive fast. I tried to act like the people at school are my ...

A.   30 October 2009: Take a karate class, it teaches so much more than self-defense. If you can afford it it would be well worth it. ... (read in full...)

Should I have a threesome to not lose him?

Q.   My live in boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. We have a house and have been living together for about 3 months. When we first started dating, the "have you ever?" conversation came up and he asked me about my past experience with ...

A.   30 October 2009: What for? You want to go down that road, it only gets more deviated. I say not worth it. What are your moral codes, values. You know the answer, it is inside you. Good luck, keep us posted.... (read in full...)

How can I stop myself being so nervous about everything?

Q.   I'm 15 and i get so nervous about everything. When im at school i get so nervous that somebody will talk about me or hit me or just plan mess with me. See im a quiet person who doesn't say much in some classes because or certain students.In some ...

A.   30 October 2009: Dear 15 year old male, It sounds like a bad situation to me. First, in the world we live in today, retaliating could cause even worse problems. I might suggest talking to the principal of the school, problem is, if they find out it is you then y... (read in full...)

I am broken hearted, my boyfriend's children and I do not get along, should I stay with him or leave?

Q.   I have a serious problem. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. His children say I am a horrible person and not good enough for their father. They have made it clear that I should not be in his life. They are mean, rude and ...

A.   29 October 2009: I updated my info for those who took their time to answer me. I appreciate your prompt and insightful answers. If you could read my update and respond further I would really appreciate it. Your obviously a smart and intelligent crowd. Thanks agai... (read in full...)

I am broken hearted, my boyfriend's children and I do not get along, should I stay with him or leave?

Q.   I have a serious problem. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. His children say I am a horrible person and not good enough for their father. They have made it clear that I should not be in his life. They are mean, rude and ...

A.   27 October 2009: Thanks for your responses. Just to clarify the situation they have been separated for 5 years. The eldest daughter decided to leave both her parents at 15, long before I was on the scene. The fourteen year old lives with the mother. She has never ... (read in full...)

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