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Is it normal to feel scared about a relationship like this?

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Question - (10 October 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel really weird about my relationship with my boyfriend. I feel so much love towards him that it almost hurts! I think about him and want to shed tears of joy...

But I try to repress it for some reason. It's like I'm scared to fully love him out of fear something will happen and my heart will break... HARD.

I want to give him all of me. He talked about marriage so that's hopeful and makes me feel good. I feel like if we get married I could totally give him all of me. But as only his gf I feel reserved...

Is it normal to feel scared like this? If not, please give me advice...

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 October 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou need to try to relax and enjoy your lovely romance. Try to focus on all the good and try to block all the negative "what if's". There is no need ever to go borrowing trouble. Take a couple deep breaths when your mind starts wandering into that dark territory. You'll be fine, Honey.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2014):

For a year, eyeswideopen. Known each other for 5 but dating for a year.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (10 October 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntHow long have you two been in this relationship?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (10 October 2014):

janniepeg agony auntMay he is giving you a reason to feel scared. You are the one who interact with him on a regular basis and sometimes you can sense red flags from the way he talks or acts. This could be because of miscommunication or just being a man and not saying things carefully. Anyone can talk about houses, marriage and baby. You have to take it one day at a time and enjoy each moment. Try not to think about the future. You can share it with him that you are scared if something goes wrong. If he loves you he will feel a strong urge to protect you and reassure you.

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