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Is it normal for a husband to not want to have sex?

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Question - (23 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female South Africa age , anonymous writes:

Helo. Is it normal for a husband not to want to have sex at all? last time had sew was like three weeks ago after he woke up and caught me masturbating! that was like a month after i forced myself on him. Going on more than 4 years. We have very good relationship otherwise. Gave excuse of erection problem and wont make effort. Think he has affair or is just fed up of me? getting tempted to look elsewhere. What should i do? talked already many times. Married 24 years.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010):

Ive been with my husband for seven years. The first five years were incredible. We had amazing sex all the time, several times a day! Now I have to ask him for it after a month or more has passed without doing it. He wont even look at me if Im naked. Im an attractive 37 yo and feel like Im just now hitting my prime, but my husband seems to have passed his. He is only 41 yo. We have talked about this several times and the answer is always the same. Hell Im not even sure what he even says. All I know is that I dont feel attractive anymore, my self esteem is non existant and Im tired of feeling this way. Dont know what to do but some strange is sounding pretty good these days. FYI Ive never cheated or even thought about it until now.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010):

My husband doesn't want sex alot, but he has a medical condition he swears is the reason. It hurts. I try to be understanding. Hopefully your husband is just experiencing a loss in testosterone or something. Maybe should go to counselor or doctor if he is willing.

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