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writes:First of all, I'm definitely not going to pursue a damn thing when it comes to this because there are just so many factors against it. I also personally think it would be wrong to actually pursue it. But I do have a question: Is it completely wrong to think a second-cousin is physically attractive? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (31 January 2009):
 It's not wrong at all. You can notice someone physical beauty without it being a crime. I'm glad you're not pursuing things because THAT would be more of a problem. But, if all your doing is appreciating a well sculpted fella, I guess there's nothing really wrong with that. Just make sure it doesn't turn into a crush!
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reader, itsJanine  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 If you're not planning to pursue anything, I don't see it as a very big problem. Physical attraction isn't something you can control, as I'm sure we've all learned at one point or another. A few years ago, I found that I was attracted to a cousin of mine. All I did was think in my mind, "Wow, he's really cute. But I have to get over this."
Next time you start thinking about his appearance, try to bring your mind to another guy that isn't totally off limits. That's really all you can do. :)
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (31 January 2009):
 I wouldn't say its wrong. U can find whoever u want as attractive as u want. The problem is whether u want to pursue it or not. Because u dont want to and u think its wrong, which is kind of is, there is nothing wrong with u otehr than noticing this person is scoring slightly higher than usual on ur hot or not scale.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): No, plenty of people are attracted to relatives. They just don't mention it. I mean a good looking person is a good looking person no matter who they are. Good idea not pursuing it though.
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