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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for over three years and never ever cheated on him. I'm so loyal so I feel really guilty because I kissed a very nice guy that I met the other night. He kissed me first and I went along with it for a few seconds. Is that cheating? He was drinking so I think that's why he kissed me. I feel bad about it but I'm also feeling intrigued by this guy I met. So it's a mix of guilt and excitement. What could possibly be the cause of this? It's so strange because I don't even look at other guys so me kissing a nice guy that I met is totally out of the ordinary for me. By the way, my man and I have not been getting along for a long time. We fight almost every day.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 It is cheating, yes. On the other hand, the root problem is your relationship with your boyfriend. Make your mind up in that regard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): I would consider this cheating, (although not on the worse level), but still cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): I know that there's no way in hell you would have kissed him if your boyfriend was standing right there watching. I would say yes, a majority of people would find this unfaithful.
Fighting in your current relationship does not the justify your action.
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reader, bhanu  +, writes (23 August 2009):
You must be in stage of being guilty. Nevertheless, u done with feeling of acceptance that you like to kiss a NICE GUY. A nice guy better than your guy? U said u r loyal and even your guy.. its strange that u done it, perhaps it was exciting movement u felt. sometimes its all human tendency to get attracted to nice/beautiful things.. u need not get baffle. forget what happened.. and be good with your guy.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 I would say that you are definitly on the edge here.
How would you feel if you found out your bf kissed another girl?
Running away from your troubled relationship isn't going to solve anything.
Either fix what is wrong, or end it.
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