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Is it better to have someone perfect who feels "wrong" or someone imperfect who feels "right?"

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Question - (19 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what would you rather have:

someone who satisfies and anticipates your every need, but feels "wrong" or someone who makes mistakes and is oblivious to your wants, but feels "right"?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (19 July 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt So if the one who feels right is oblivious to your needs and he is also not attractive, ...what's so right about him ??

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (19 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntNo one is perfect:)

It all depends on what YOU want out of the relationship and how well you are matched.

I would say neither. None of them are "right" in any way form or shape!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):

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funny thing is, the guy who feels "wrong" for me is more attractive (to me at least) and we have more sexual chemistry than the guy who feels "right". that's not to say everything with mr. wrong is purely physical. we just like to be around each other and have a good time... but occasionally, i just feel empty around him as if something's missing.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (19 July 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Neither one !

The one that feels "wrong"... well, if he feels wrong you cannot force yourself to love him, no matter how caring and considerate he is.

And the one who feels "right "...aw come on, how can possibly someone who is oblivious to your needs feel "right" ?? Only if you were a masochist !

I suspect all his "feeling right " comes from being a hottie . While this is nothing to discount- it is surely not enough for BEING the right person.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):

What just feels right can be a dangerous thing. Every person with a dozen asshole exes knows just how "right" those exes all felt for a while.

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