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Can't maintain an erection, even when I'm really turned on!

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Question - (19 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *onfused1985 writes:

Hi,

I have problems getting and keeping an erection when I'm with someone, I thought at first it was because I was nervious but today I got with this girl who I've known for ages and who I'm very confident around.

We stared kissing and then became more physical but my soldier would stand to attention, I went down on her which is a huge turn on for me but only managed a semi, when it got to the point of penertration I was not hard so obviously nothing could happen :(

She was very understanding and said there was always another time but I think if I can't perform again she will finish me because see is very sexually charged.

I really don't want to loose her

Please Please can someone help me and tell me what I should do?

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A male reader, Confused1985 United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2010):

Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Confused1985 agony auntIt's not a one off, its happened many times before.

I've never had full sex :(

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A male reader, Hopeful13 United States +, writes (19 July 2010):

Perhaps you should get your hormone levels checked. You might have low testosterone or any other hormones that would affect your libido.

You might want to visit an endocrinologist

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