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writes:My husband has friend request some hot chick on fb; she has big boobs- very provacative looking, has pictures of herself "says for modeling " they look like pictures you would see in playboy ect. I haven't seen any comunication between them- but still- is it right, or like a " red flag"
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (17 March 2012):
 I say you should casually ask him, like if you are both looking at his facebook friends, say "Oh, who is that? I've never seen her before." But say it in a casual way, like you're curious about who she is, but not suspecting him of anything, because if he thinks you're suspecting him, and he's not cheating or anything, then he'll be mad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): I wouldnt worry about it unless he adds these women and keeps them secretly from you then there is certainly something he is not telling you
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): Why is it that very little people are seeing the obvious. You know, it is possible that her husband could have been friends with her in high school or something. She could be a cousin, in law, etc. You are freaking out over nothing. Just ask him. Jeez these days people seem to forget honesty exists.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): Red flag! I would be really angry and hurt! Ask him if he knows her?.. I doubt he does. I wouldn't want my bf browsing around adding girls like that to his fb friend list, not knowing them and looking all provocitive... I see one of my guy friends adding girls to his page they are always half naked and usually from another country. I know damn well he doesn't know them! I think it's ugly and inconsiderate of him to stoop so shallow... Now, go grill him!! Good luck ;)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 March 2012):
 How do you know he's friend requested her? Were you snooping and looking for something like this? If so, what made you snoop?
You can question, but if he has some real problems with this sort of thing, you confronting him now will only make him more secretive. If I were you, I'd continue to play dumb for now and keep an eye out for communication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): It could be, or it could be a prostitute or whatever who randomly invites men to add her as a friend so she can "spam" them. Does he have other friends like this at FB?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): Does he play any games on Facebook? I know that's the reason why my husband friend requests people. He never talks to them on or off of Facebook. I wouldn't think it was a red flag if he plays games on there. If he doesn't, well then maybe you should ask him who she is.
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