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writes:is it normal i dont really like french kissing? i mean i like snogging, and would do anything "sexwise", i just dont really like tongue kissing. is anyone else like that? does that make me strange and will stop me from having sexual partners?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 Hey! I don't normally care for it either, unless it's done *very* well. And unfortunately, there are *very* few guys who do it well. I dated one guy briefly who thought that French kissing involved trying to probe the back of my throat. I dated another who thought that the more saliva the better. BLECH.
Trust me, not liking French kissing won't stop your chances of a relationship. And if you happen to meet someone who does it well, your opinion of it will change quite a bit. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): I love french kissing, where as my boyfriend doesn't. That doesn't make me dislike him because of this. If anyone breaks up with you because you don't like kissing the way they do then they are VERY shallow and shows you they never really liked you at all. A decent person would not break up with you/not like you because of this.I used to love french kissing. And I haven't kissed like that in over a year (because of my boyfriend) and I can honestly say I don't miss it at all, because I'd sooner be with my boyfriend than 'french kissing' someone else.Everybody likes different things anyway. You might meet a guy who doesn't like it either. Or perhaps you DO like it, you just haven't felt that much of a strong connection with anybody to feel comfortable with it? or you haven't felt too much physical attraction towards someone? But yes, it's just what you like. If someone likes you, they will like you for you and respect what you like.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (28 August 2010):
 Yeah, like they invented the French kiss!
Anyway, it's not a problem if you don't like it. I have the same problem, I hate to feel a wet tongue rolling like a snake deep down my throat, and my boyfriend is OK with it. He's more of a romantic kisser.
I think French kiss is for people who really really know how to handle it. If people fail at it, the French kiss becomes nothing but a gross fluid exchange. Or you can practice in order to feel comfortable.
But I still think that the best kiss is the kiss you and your partner are OK with :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): You know, I don't like it much myself. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. If you wanna be in a relationship with a guy who really matters, then he will respect you for that. That's one small thing that shouldn't make or break a relationship.
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reader, DearMe +, writes (28 August 2010):
If you are willing to do other things, im sure not wanting to use tounge, wouldnt bother a lad very much. Plus if they like you it shouldnt matter anyway. But how many times have you used tounge with how many people. If its only the one person then maybe.. its just the way he kisses, and you might find useing tounge with someone else alot better. Good Luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): I don't like it very much either, so you're not alone, for one thing.
From my point of view, it's perfectly normal, and everybody is in to different things. Don't worry about it! :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): I've never kissed a girl before so i may not be the best one to answer this question. but i think that if you are looking for somebody to be in a relationship with that if they really like you then it should not interfere in the relationship.
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