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Is he wanting sex?

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Question - (14 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I want my b/f back! it seems lately that my b/f and i are drifting apart, more so he then me. He used to call me all the time just to c wat i was doing, he wanted to kiss me every chance he got, and he acted like he cared more about me in general.And even though were still together it seems like he doesnt want to kiss me nemore, and im the one calling him, and i feel like im choking him, by calling. And it seems that i care more about him then he does me. How do i get him to "want" me or be like he used to be? bc the only time hes REELi sweet to me n wants to kiss me n stuff, is wen he wants sex. i need help, n ill b the 1st to admit it!

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (15 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntI'm sorry to say mate, but it looks like he is no longer interested in you as a person. This happens I'm afraid and you just have to accept that you two aren't a match.

Now, he doesnt have to talk to you, but he is a young guy and he gets horny, so he now has you he can call because he knows you will satisfy that need.

That's not a relationship is it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

it sounds like he's only in the relationship for sex.

honestly, i think that you should confront him about it though...if he gets defensive about the whole situation then obviously he's just doing it to get some.

maybe he's going through some other problems and he just hasn't wanted to confront you about it, but relationships are better if they are talked out. you need to know what's going on...no matter how hard it is you still need to talk with him about it.

and that's that.

hopefully that helped a little.

GOOD LUCK!

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