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Is he trying to tell me he doesn't like me or has he just not noticed?

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Question - (9 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Theres this boy in my school, I met him at a party a couple of months ago and since then we talk on msn a lot and I have met up with him a couple of times, but we've always been with friends. The problem is, when I first met him he liked my friend Cara but she wasn't interested. I introduced him to my other friend Mandy and he liked her (in that way) but Mandy just liked him as a friend. Now I have recently started to like him. Whenever we're on msn he has recently been giving me one word answers and, well, dingyin me!! :(. I text him one night when I was drunk saying- 'I like you and I know you're not interested, but we could meet up sometime and make the most of it.' He replied next morning saying - 'What you mean make the most of it :-|'. i replied 'sorry I didn't know what I was talking about'.

I have a feeling I might have said the wrong thing and is he just dropping hints that he's not interested or has he just not noticed me..??

plz help xx

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States +, writes (9 March 2008):

Ask oldersister agony auntYes, you are a smart girl! I'm so glad you feel better even though it's a hard thing to hear!! I have a feeling you'll be even smarter next time :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

hia oldersister. thanks for thee answer i feel beter hearing it :L he is also 2 years older than me and i was getting really confused because one minitee he would be giving me hints or liking me and the next not..so do you agree then that hes not interestd but dosent want to say? xx

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States +, writes (9 March 2008):

Ask oldersister agony auntI hate to be the bearer of bad news but I don't think anything's going to be happening with this guy. I also would never in the future offer yourself drunk to someone. Although some guys will love this and use you for it, their interests won't be captured by that sordid maneuver. This guy you texted understood exactly what you meant but was too embarrassed for you to hurt your feelings. Sorry, you are too young to develop such bad habits and you need to hear this.

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