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writes:ok..this is nothing about sex or relationship problemits kinda a relationship problem and i hope someone can help me with this...im from tunisia and i live in holland.. my boyfriend is also from the same country but lives in france..i know everything about the history of holland and i know somethings about life.. now the problem is when i discuss something with my boyfriend about tunisian culture or history or about the history of the islam (yes im a muslim but don't know anything about it) I dont know anything how to react about it i have no freaking IDEA about that. then he get's angry not because i dont know but because I don't understand when he explains it to me because my tunisian language isn't that great.. also when I try to explain something (he said we should learn eacoher things) i can't explain it cause i learned or read it in the dutch language AM I THAT STUPID? i feel im very stupid people always say im intelligent and they like the way i see the world they like my side of the story and i always know what too say but with him It feels like he is too smart and to intelligent for me.. should i break this relationship of? or has inteligence nothing to do with it? I love him though and he loves me he knows how i am in live and he knows whats on my mind but like i said when we discuss something about politics or history of another country I suck...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 It is just an area in life that you are not educated in, that does not mean that he is smarter or better than you. Tell him how this makes you feel. Explain to him that it makes you feel like you are dumb when he does this. If he cares about you well then he will understand and instead of bringing you down he will teach you these things that he knows. This is not a big reason why you should end a relationship you both just need to talk to each other, and you need to be honest with him
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