Is he the one for me?

A female age 30-35, *iquinn writes:

Iv known ds guy 4 quite a while as we were in d same organization for 6years. We neva got to talk to eachoda until lastyear wen we wud only greet eachoda in passin•Then novemba,last year,we bgan to talk in earnest and 3weeks ago,he told me he loves me.D problem nw is I'm afraid of datin d wrong guy hu is sayin all d right tins and I hav neva dated before.Iv kept postponin hvin a relatnship so many tyms bt wats scary here is I actually like him a lot.I'm strongly attracted to him nd for the first tym,I'm actually cnsiderin it wen a guy says he loves me nd wants somtin deep.I'm tryn to build a life nd a career for myself nd I'm scared dt datin anyone rit now will stand in d way of my dreams.Iv xplained all ds to him nd even laid d cards on d table by tellin him dat though there is an undeniable spark btwn us,we r nt datin nd r only friends. I dnt want to pass d wrong signals.He keeps usin endearments on me though iv told him to stop(nt dt I dnt love every bit of it)bt I nid to take it slow nd iv told him so too.Anoda issue I hav with him is dt all he ever talks about is wat we feel for eachoda nd I'm getting tired of it. I lik to be challenged intellectually.Iv told him ds too.He didnt see anytin wrong with it cos as he said its bcos he fils deeply so he liks to talk bout it. There's motin wrong with ds far as I'm concerned bt I want to talk about mor than us nd wen I bring up oda topics,he only replies briefly then hoes rit back to talkin about hw much he loves me. I'm beginnin to think he's nt d one 4 me.He didn't take me seriously nd I can't stand dt.If we actually finally hv anytn serious,wat is left to talk about?

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