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Is he stringing me along or really sorting out "issues" with the mother of his kid?

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Question - (25 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a man whom i feel madly inlove with and for a while i thought he loved me too.Our problem is that he's still seeing the mother of his six yr old son.He told me that he is willing to break it up with her so we can have a proper relationship.But i apparently have to be patient while he sorts out these issues,becouse according to him he doesnot want to hurt anybody.Am comfused will he do it or does he just want to string me along,how long should i wait for this man and is he really worth the wait??Pls help.I love him

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

Ok this is a complicated situation, this man dosent want to break up his family but is happy seeing you on the side.

It may be difficult but you must really give him a deadline about how long you will wait for him and stick to it.

But do you really want to be the reason this family breaks up? And if he has cheated on his currect partner he is likely to do the same in the future to you.

xxx

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