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Is he screwing me over behind my back or is he just having harmless fun?

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Question - (1 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *isahorn_1 writes:

I am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend of 1 year. He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, but I keep finding emails from ads that he responds to on personals sites, and earlier in the year he had multiple ads up of his own, advertising him as single and looking for sex. This breaks my heart, and he knows it because we've had many conversations about it. What do I do? Is he screwing me over behind my back or is he just having harmless fun? And, why does he keep doing it?

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A female reader, lisahorn_1 Canada +, writes (2 July 2009):

lisahorn_1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Do I confront him about it? Afterall, I was kindof in the wrong too, I looked through his emails...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

What does he say about these ads? That he doesn't hook up with these women? Then why would he place the ads? Trying to be logical with you here....he is pulling the wool over your eyes! Don't see this relationship for what it could be, see it for what it is....now go find a real man.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

him anything but a player?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

I think it is clear he is messing around behind your back, he is advertising for sex, what is confusing about that?

Do you consider this harmless fun? I consider it sexual addiction. At the very least he is not commited to you in any way. So why are you calling

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