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writes:OK, this is gonna be long. So there's this guy I used to be friends with, but then our friendship just sort of wore off when he became a pervert. He shared his very creepy opinions about my friends with other people but never his opinions of me.Just a few weeks ago, he told me that he liked me and that he was over his vulgar stage. I of course believed him and didn't do anything when he told me he loved me, thought I was beautiful, etc. I even kind of liked the attention. Who wouldn't?But then, one day, two of my rather attractive friends, a.k.a. his ex "crushes", were playing cyber truth-or-dare with him. They asked him a bunch of questions about who he wants to get it on with. Apparently he thinks I'm smoking hot, would want to have sex with me out of all my friends, and wants to go to second base with me, in spite of the fact that I have a boyfriend. He then proceeded to send them each a video of him jacking off and saying THEIR names. My friends told me all of this without him knowing. I was incredibly disgusted. How do I now tell him that this is the reason I'm being so awkward around him now? He will be pissed at my friends, who will be pissed at me. Do I have to tell him this at all? I want to clear the air, but I don't want to stir up any drama either.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (3 July 2009):
 well its not wrong for the guy to say that he thinks ur hott and would want to have sexx with you out of all ur friends during the truth or dare..for one its truth or dare so you have to i gueess
but it did kinda get out fo hand with him sending them a video of him jacking off..thats disgusting...just tell him you dont feel that way about him..and that he's a lil too perverted for you
good luck
-ardy
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