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*UVPREC01
writes:Been on three dates with this guy. Had a brief kiss on the second date (dinner at his home) and a long kiss on the third date. He is planning to come to dinner at my home and stay the night because he lives 1 hour away. I text him everyday and sometimes he does not text me back till the next day his texts me sorry he has been busy so I don't know if he is really interested in me. Any advice? I normally text in the morning a brief greeting and at night is this too much?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 I wouldnt let him stay at your house after only 3 dates, especially as he has been a bit erratic with his contact. Play it cool for a few days...dont text him and see how he reacts. If you don't hear from him...I'd forget him.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Slap urself the minute u wrote "hes going to spend the night because he lives one hour away from me" are u serious? u really need to read WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES. Uh-hellO! in his mind,everything is already done. Hes gon come to ur place,try to sleep with u,and if he doesnt,he will know hes very close to doing it. U need to get ur respect back. Put urself FIRST. uve only been on 3 dates,so why u care if it takes him an hour to get home? An hour is nothing! Ive been in a similar situation. Let him know politely that you changing ur plans and u guys arent havign dinner at ur place.Save that for after a month or two,and for God's sake stop worrying about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): if you are doing all of the texting then yes you are texting to much. if he doesnt ever text you first then hes just not that into you. mal
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