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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have this feeling for a guy (known him for more than 2 years now) and many times I could feel his affection and care towards me but now i think i want more out of this relationship. We talk on the phone for hours and we chat online and we talk about everything. He says he has never met a woman like me. When i asked him what next, he said that he is afraid of marriage but he wants it and that he wants children! if he met the right woman shouldn't he really show it up?? or just continue saying that he doesn't want to lose me??? is he lying and taking advantage of me???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Is he lying and taking advantage of you? Hard to say, though right off-hand, I don't see that in the little you tell us about him.How long have you actually been dating? You say you've KNOWN each other for two years, but have you been going out that long? If so, perhaps its time to be bold and ask him how he feels about marriage WITH YOU, and see what he says (better to ask him face-to-face rather than on the phone, though).If you have only been an item for six months or less, then, depending on how well the relationship is going, give it another few months before bringing it up.
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