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Is he just saying this to her to keep the affair going?

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Question - (10 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, my friend is 32 years old and is married. She has been seeing a 45 year old married man for quite some time now. He always says "i love you" to her and tells her she is beautiful, sexy, hot etc etc. Also he says that he enjoys spending time with her not just a sexual relationship. What is the actual deal here? Is he just saying all this stuff to please her or does he actually love her?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2010):

Of course he's saying it for sex. He couldn't care a less about her at all. Married men rarely leave their wives. He's just using her. If he loved her, he would be with her. Your friend is really wasting her life.

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