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*nonymous08
writes:i have a thing for my teacher...well it all started off when i started my new school. i spotted a teacher that a few people liked, well 1 or 2 to be honest + me at 1st, he was just a normal teacher i used to get into touble with him, but he used to let me off and keep my friensds behind for detention.Anyway i thought it was normal, but a few months on now i've started to talk to him, and he's called me to his class to help him set up the classroom. But then when my class came in i was already sat down he kicked my table and said, 'go and wait outside quick', i felt weird like, what's he going on about, i'm naked, lol. Then my friends asked why i was so early, i just told them the truth that i had been helping him...and they wound me up saying helpin with what kirsty? I was embarrassed.. then he said right i want your best work today its taken me half an hour to set up this classroom, up but hed lied he hadn't one a thing i had. Then my friend looked at me and said i'd lied, so she thought somat was going on, but i put her straight. But now it's like 2 days on. Yesterday i saw him 8 times and he said hello everytime. I saw him it was quite annoying so i asked him why he was being nice and he just said, because of something i wouldn't like to discuss, then he said well not out here anyway. I was puzzled - then my friend told me today that she heard him saying what a nice girl i was, and i was kind and helpfull. She keeps saying he's got feelings for me, but i don't know what to believe though it's ever since he found out i liked him.Is he just being friendly or is it more ??????????
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reader, anonymous08 +, writes (7 June 2008):
anonymous08 is verified as being by the original poster of the question right well ive read all of your advice and ive told him straight that its not right he said but i thought you liked me and i said yes i do but id neverdo anything with my teacher your over twice my age i started seeing someone at my school called blake and i think hes quite jealous because he just says fine i hope you have agud life together dont come to me when it all goes bust i hate him now i cant belive i ever had feelings for him
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): He is definitely doing the wrong thing. A teacher is supposed to protect and teach, not make gross comments like that and try to get you alone. If he continues to bug you or treat you strangely, PLEASE tell an administrator at your school or even a parent. A warning would remind him of his place and keep YOU safe. People are not always as trustworthy as we want them to be, including teachers.
By the way, I stopped to read your post because I actually have a crush on a teacher and am looking for advice. So far it seems that the best thing is to GET OVER IT and find a hot guy your own age. Hopefully I can do so and you can too!
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reader, Tevote  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Well I think he definetely has feelings for you. He might be being a little more then friendly, it's not right for teachers to do that. but if you truly have feelings for him let him know at the end of the year, or just keep talking to him and see what happens...
I think that he secretly really does have feelings for you, don't ask him yet have fun and enjoy the niceness.
But if anything starts you should know that there are extremely big consiquences...
I know this may not be the best advice- don't get caught! Seriously though just consider all the consiquences.
But if you do like him and he likes you then goodluck! hope all goes well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): If I did not know better I would say that a lot of these 'I like my teacher, my teacher likes me ' posts are crank and are taking up the time of the agony aunts when they could be answering something else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): look your young and probably misreading any signs because i very much dought that a grown man would have any attration for a 11/12 year old, he is probably just being nice. you say you get in trouble with him maybe he is tryin a diffrennt approach to make you behave and keep you out of trouble. don't look to deep into it it probably is nothing.
much love
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