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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm currently at uni and there's this guy I find very physically attractive, but I am really big on personality and as I only know him through friends I'm not sure what to make of him as I haven't spoken to him very much. It's like he's two people.Sometimes, he's really nice (he stood up for me once when his friends were making fun of me), other times he doesn't seem to care (once he was flirting with and hugging another girl right in front of me when we were with a group of friends. To be fair, she's really flirty with everyone and she has a boyfriend now, but it was still upsetting.) Also, sometimes he seems very interested in me (grinning ear to ear, winking and asking about my interests, staring at me for ages really obviously with a blank expression and sometimes looking away when I look back at him) and other times he doesn't seem to care! I asked him to stay in touch over the Christmas holidays and he seemed really keen on the idea but I messaged him and all I got was a really short reply. When he's with his friends (some of whom I know) he's sometimes loud and brash but usually quite quiet and reserved, I don't know what to make of that either.Is he just a shy guy who possibly fancies me or a stereotypical "lad" who doesn't care about me all that much? Help!Thanks :)
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