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writes:I met this guy about two years ago when i just started sixth grade and right on the first day he starting being annoying and always teasing me. I hated him. He always teases me in front of everyone and everyone would be looking. One day i had to sit next to him in math class and i got a really low score on my test and he started calling me stupid and everything. now that time i was super mad and hated him soooo much! After sixth grade he still annoys me. Almost everyone in school asks me if he likes me and how should i know? That time he was just a normal friend of mine. I didnt hate him as much as i did before because he stopped saying mean things to me but he still teases me and annoys me. One time one of his friends said that he had proof that the guy that annoys me likes me and he admitted that he did online. I didnt really bother to look at it. In eighth grade i started having feelings for him but i acted like i really hated him when he always takes my stuff. Whenever someone asks him if he likes me he wouldnt say anything. One day, it was raining and my class was in the bungalows and the bell rang. I was the last one in the classroom packing my stuff. Everyone left except for him and he said he had an umbrella. Then we walked out and he asked me to use his umbrella but i said its fine and started putting my hood on. All of a sudden, he just covered my head with an opened umbrella and we both walked inside the school. Sometimes i could feel stares in class and everytime i got something right he would call me a smartass. Somehow as everyday passed he didnt hang out with me and my friends as much as he used to and he didnt take my stuff to annoy me like he used to too. On facebook i chatted with him and he would tell me how he got bullied and his personality is how he is today because he wants to stand up for other people. I dont think anyone really knows that about him. Then i asked who does he like but he said he usually thinks about her everyday. I asked why not bother the girl you like instead of me and he said wouldnt it be obvious then? Now, when people say he likes me he would say he likes another girl. He also flirts around with every girl but people say that he likes me even though he flirts around with everyone. Right now i dont know if he really likes me or just flirting around.
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reader, elliestreeter  +, writes (16 February 2013):
That does sound just like he's trying to make you jealous! And your friend is right, if he just wanted to high five her he would have just done that and walked off or something, there was obviously an ulterior motive. Try talking to him more? X
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso, today he came over to high five my best friend because she got an award and he didnt say hi to me he just continuously high fiving my friend like five times in a row and i can tell he was looking at me. After that was friend told me that he was obviously checking to see if i was jealous or something but i pretended not to see. She also said if he wanted to high five her, he would have just did it once and he was looking at me when he was high fiving her. So is he really trying to make me jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2013): Think about how he treats other girls, is your idea of him flirting what he's doing to you, if so is he doing the same to all the other girls, if it's slightly different and he appreciates you in a different way then maybe he has a special spot for you. I know before i started going out with my boyfriend now and also with previous boyfriends, they used to tease me and effectively piss the hell out of me! If he does seem interested in you, consider whether he is actually deeply interested or just messing around like he is with the others, if you say he flirts with every other girl too, maybe he's just treating you like them and doesn't actually like you. Considering he confided in you about the bullying is something to suggest he likes you, but did he ever bring it up to you in person, facebook is a starting point for you to get to know each other but he should start talking to you more in person about personal things such as that. That could be a good sign that he likes you a lot, so i suggest you try talking more with him and see if he opens up to you, and if you'd feel comfortable opening up to him too!
If you want to talk further about it message me...x
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