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female
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30-35,
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writes:One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch. He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang out because he didn't have enough money and had a class's project and also said that he would contact me if he had enough money. But one day after that, he said we could hang out for lunch on the condition that I pay money for him, citing he paid restaurant's extra money(I didn't have enough money so I can't pay whole at that time) for me when his birthday party. I said it was okay and he accepted my offer. Incidentally,on the day of date, he said he skipped his breakfast. So.. I can't understand his feeling.. These are too confusing for me to grasp.. Does he see me as just a friend? Please help me out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2011): It is too hard to tell from this situation. He obviously did want to go out with you but had no money. But, did you make it sound like a date when you asked or just a friendly lunch? It could be either way.
Some details on how he behaves around you otherwise would be helpful. :)
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