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writes:I met this guy a few weeks ago. We clicked because we are both majoring in music and we both are passionate about art and enjoy deep conversations. I love how intelligent and creative he is and he's open about his feelings and that's refreshing to me. We text every night until we fall asleep talking about lots of stuff. He has joked about serenading me and marrying me and making me coffee (because we both are addicted to coffee lol). And if he doesn't contact me for a day he does the next day and apologizes for not talking to me for a while and I think that's sweet, I've never had a guy act like that before. He says he's trying to plan when we can next hang out. One night we were talking and then I saw on Facebook that he posted a status that said "Your heart is fading into mine" but I don't know for sure if that was about me or not lol. He also said he's gonna draw my portrait (he's a really good portrait artist)I find myself liking him more and more. But one time he said that I'm a "really good friend" and that scared me a little because I don't wanna be put in the friend zone. I also sorta feel like he's out of my league because he's really attractive and popular. Does it sound like he's interested or am I just gonna be friendzoned?
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (29 January 2014):
 I think dont jump into conclusions so soon. I would say that he is flowing with the flow for now. So probably you may use the same approach. This position is quite risky for both of you. Either of you could fall for each other while the other may not. So be prepared. He is probably exploring you more to know if you are the one. But it is also quite possible he may decide you are not his choice. So you will have to hang in there. Also, I suggest, that you also dont give him a feeling that you have fallen for him. He wont take you seriously then. Keep the guy interested in you, keep the mystery burning.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): I'd keep my heart in the friend-zone, until he starts hanging out with you,and put some actions behind his pretty words.
Never ever be seduced by text messages. They are just lady-bait. Guys know girls fall for it. They also attach feelings quickly when they get a large number of them.
Keep it all together. Don't sink your feelings in too fast.
There's not enough to go on.
The mistake a lot of people make is really getting in head over heels, before they really know why. It's give and take.
The more attention you get, the more you give.
Guys can be pretty nice. They always want sex, and always let that be the warning in the back of your mind.
He likes you as a female for sure. Just don't let your feelings get ahead of things.
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reader, Blueballoon2244 +, writes (29 January 2014):
Girl don't think like that, guys don't usually spend their time with a girl like he does with you unless they have feelings. Don't think he's too good for you because he's attractive, he most likely thinks you're beautiful, inside and out. He sounds like a great guy. And anyway the best relationships come out of friendships, don't overthink it.
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