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writes:hi there,ok I get so confused with dating these days! I met a guy at a friends country house wkd away, not total player type, not even good looking like I normally go for but we just clicked and hit it off and were inseparable for most of the wkd.We did not exchange numbers as we both left at different times, but as soon as I returned from the wkd he had already sent me a fbook message with his number etc as we had met before (only briefly)and were already friends on there. I waited until the next day to respond and already had a text from him first thing in the morning as he had got my number from a friend! so he really went out of his way!Couple of days later he asked me on a saturday date which we went on and had a great time we also went for breakfast and spent the rest of sunday together, Yes he stayed but that had already happened at the wkd away, and he was not a stranger (as I said before).Been on quite a few dates and they have all been really good, he keeps in contact a lot and always instigates the convo. we are going on holiday separately which we booked before we met and his contact has not been so frequent leading up to the holiday. I am also going away when he gets back. The last time I text him he did not respond to one of my questions (was not really anything important) he was off on holiday the next day!I also moved house recently and I guess we have only been seeing each other a month but I was a bit disappointed he didn't offer to help, but I didn't want to ask as I am quite independant and I don't want it to come across as me needing him so early on!He is 28 I am 30. Worried he is going off me? I have no idea!! :-S thanks.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 July 2012):
 It doesn't sound to me like he is going off you at all. At the end of the day this is still very new to the both of you so I think you should just take it as it comes and see how it works out. You both had holidays planned before you got involved together and maybe a bit of space is good between you both as well considering you have only just got involved with each other. I am sure he never meant any harm by not asking did you want any help, maybe he just never thought about it and figured that you had it all sorted. Keep going on dates and getting to know each other and hopefully it works out for you both. Good luck.
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