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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Does this man find me attractive or not? I'm not interested in him, but i'm just curious, as i can't understand why he says these things if he doesn't. He once said " There's not many people who would kick you out of bed " , and that must mean something sexual. And, i can't remember all of the conversation, but during the conversation, he said to his friend , " that would be like me trying to get with her ", meaning me , obviously, lol. I'm shocked that he says these things though because he is a friend of another man that i used to go out with, and he is married !. I don't think he should be talking that way, for those two reasons. What's also strange is that he told me that another man, who is also friends with him and the man i used to go out with, loves me !. His friend has told me himself that he is interested in me. It seems strange that all three of them might find me attractive and they are all friends! I don't like this man saying these things though, or do you think there's no harm in it as long as he doesn't try and do anything physical? I know he might see his comments as a joke too, but why do men act like that?
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reader, rivi  +, writes (11 December 2011):
If you are 'not interested in him' why are you even paying attention ?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (11 December 2011):
 Men are very visual creatures and even though he's married that doesn't mean he can't appreciate a beautiful woman. I think these comments are harmless but if it makes you feel uncomfortable then speak up and don't take it.
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