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51-59,
*orothea
writes:My boyfriend is wonderful to me and always does everything for me, however he just has one habit that really annoys me, he does seem to be too friendly with shop assistants and often engages in conversations with them while they are serving us. He will chat to them for anything from 2 to several minutes but when I tell him that it looks like he is chatting people up he says he is just being friendly. Am I the one who is being unreasonable or is he really flirting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): If he had any wrong intention,he would do it behind your back. As you are there its likely he dont realize. You are Jealos.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): Does he only chat to female shop assistants, or men also? Is he generally a chatty kind of person? He might just like to start conversations while waiting to leave the store, and it might be nothing more than that. I doubt that he is trying to openly flirt though, since he does it in front of you. I don't get too much of a bad impression from your question. But I guess it really does depend on what he says to them. You're not being unreasonable though, if it concerns you then it does, and that is okay. But since you have asked him about it and he has tried to reassure you, I think it might be worth trying to trust him, unless he gives you any solid reason to be suspicious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): This guy is flirting and using the (just being friendly quote)as an excuse to hide his pathetic chat up/pulling technique this realationship is doomed to fail walk away
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reader, Alwayswondering  +, writes (31 August 2010):
Hmmm. He seems he likes conversation. Does he say anything flirtatious to them?
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