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Is he dating her to get to me?

Tagged as: Cheating, Friends, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Article - (12 June 2022) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, Blade_Runner2049 writes:

Hi Everyone!

I'm looking for some really sound advice here as I'm going out my mind with worry. So I wrote a question a few weeks back saying I had caught my partner cheating. We split up and she ended up with the guy she was cheating with. I then went on to say I had then seen him cheating on her.

Anyway, I just want to update everyone and give you a bit more background. And I am looking for more advice as I'm really going out of my mind with worry.

So a bit more background on my life. We have kids together. I've done really well for myself. I've been really lucky and fortunate. I have my own business and I've done really well in the stock market and with crypto. And I will always be grateful for what I have. My kids want for nothing, and I really just put it down to good luck.

Anyway, I didn't tell my ex, but the truth is I was talking to one of my really good friends who's a real tech wizard. Anyway, he's a really inquisitive guy and he was asking if I knew who this guy was. So truth be told we looked him up. Started to do a bit of detective work. It turns out the guy is a complete scam artist. He's a con man. He's being chased all over the country for money he is owed to businesses, people, the government.

The reason I'm worried so much is because obviously if anything happens to me the money goes to my ex and the girls and family. But I'm worried sick this guy gets his hands on it. I'm starting to wonder if this guy has picked her knowing who she is and who I am. Obviously I am seeking legal advice as well. But I am completely going out my mind with worry.

I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and could give me any advice.

I mean this guy is really really bad news. I'm trying to keep as calm as I can. But I'm so worried about the kids. I'm even worried about her. I'm worried about everything.

I just don't know what to do?

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