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writes:this is an update, i asked my bf again who this woman is that he keeps ringing 3/4 times a day and he didnt tell me who she is, just that they are not having a relationship. I really do want to believe that is the truth but the fact that he avoided the issue for over a week and wouldnt have said anything if i didnt ask makes me wonder if its the truth. He keeps getting angry when i bring up the subject cause i went down his call list. is he covering up or do i believe him and just leave it? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (14 February 2007):
 It sounds to me like you have a right to have doubts! If he's got nothing to hide, he should just be telling you who she is@ we're all allowed friends of the opposite sex but ones that are kept secret are a little more suspicious. You need to confront him about this and, no matter how mad he gets, sort it out. You want to know who she is and whether anything is going on.
If he respected you, he would have already told you that she's just a friend. Maybe the silence gives you the answer? I suppose only you know him so look into your heart: could he be cheating?
You deserve to know the truth so get to the bottom of it and fast. Stop letting him bully you around and take advantage of you, you're better than that. It may well be innocent but, either way, you need to know or this will eat away at you forever.
Good luck
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