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writes: Hello. Question for the ladies. I have a 7 3/4" penis with a 5 3/4" girth. My wife says it is by far the biggest she has been with. The question is: sometimes if we have sex too long or a lot of foreplay, it loses some of its erectness. It is still erect enough for sex but not rock hard. This doesn't always happen but maybe one out of every four or five times (drinking doesn't help). The question is: if it is still very large but not rock hard is it still just as pleasurable or is complete hardness a very important factor?
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Problem related to hardness? Everything in sex is related to definition. People define sex according to time; how long penetration long? Or How much orgasm one feel in one sexual activity?
But objective definition do not make point on minor details like size of penis, or breast, or duration of love making etc. Just in business, profit is pre-set goal, so in sex 'pleasure' is goal. This pleasure is required to realize. Once it is realized then every thing will be set in tune and it will sound beautiful. One will feel easy to define what is minor and unimportant detail, and then he will not bother for specific guidance, as to how much oral, how much hand job, and how much penetration?
"pleasure' one experience during sex play is not pleasure of softness or hardness of the body, or even shape of the body, but impulses or vibration generated from sex organ and spread and cover entire body is 'pleasure'. But, if you have another meaning, that relaxation from sexual tension is something important, then one has missed the real beauty of sex play. He will remain in confusion for all life. Nothing will help then, no medicine, no drug, no sex position, ...N O T H I N G !!! It sound very difficult for many many male and female also, that female can experienced sex pleasure simply from foreplay, even without looking at or touching male's sex organ !!! Yes, it is by the grace of nature that female can feel total satisfaction with foreplay. The moment male's mind understand this universal truth, then heaven is the only possible answer in love making.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (26 September 2009):
 First, nice one. I'm only 6.25" x 5.5". You're at about the 95th percentile in both length and width. I'm no woman, but I'm thinking that even a little soft, even if you shrink half an inch in each direction, you're still bigger than many men at full size.
But for what it's worth, I can't keep fully hard forever either. Some days rock hard, other days hard but not amazing, some days not really fully there. Even 15 minutes can go from eh to WOW or from WOW to nada. It's just how the equipment works.
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reader, samurai girl +, writes (26 September 2009):
 That really depends on your wife, as all women are different. For me, starting off very hard is what's required then you reach a bit of a crescendo. As the erectness wears off, it can be pleasurable to still have him inside you...What does your wife say?
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