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22-25,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I of one year broke up shortly after new year. We've had 3 months apart with no contact, and in the past couple of weeks have got back in contact.We missed each other, and have had time to reflect upon the mistakes we both made, and why. We have the best bond, we are so good together in almost every way.But I do question the one quality that our relationship lacked, and that was passion. We had good sex, he knew my body inside and out and knew exactly how to please me. But it's almost like we were so comfortable with each other, we lacked the lust and passion.Would it be a mistake to get back together?
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (20 March 2008):
 It is only a mistake if this is not the kind of relationship you want. There are many successful relationships where passion isn't the main driver and passion can wax and wane over time. To have a relationship where passion was never a factor, it can sometimes or not be achieved later but for both participants passion isn't to them, an integral part of a relationship. You just have to decide if it is important to you and how important it is to you, especially if you can't capture it through spontenaety or other workings on your relationship.
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