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Is 8 months of dating too soon to ask to be exclusive?

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Question - (7 January 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2014)
A male Austria age 36-40, anonymous writes:

what do you think?

Is asking a woman after 8month of dating to become exclusive, being to "intense" or putting too much pressure on it???

I am courious about it....I did it and got dumped...

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (8 January 2014):

If you're not exclusive by eight months, trust me, you never will be.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2014):

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yap 8 month of pull and push... And she was begging me for coming back to her after I decided that it wouldn´t work out cause of her lack of commitment....I came back and actually made my point clear and then she dumped me....doesn´t make sense to me at all..

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (7 January 2014):

Honeypie agony auntPersonally, I would say 3-4 months is a good time, 8 months? Yes, nothing wrong UNLESS that is NOT what she wanted - and since she dumped you, she didn't want it.

Be glad it happened now then down the road.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (7 January 2014):

person12345 agony aunt8 months?! If after 8 months she wasn't wanting to be exclusive, she never wanted it.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 January 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntShe dumped you after you asked her, after 8 months of dating, to become exclusive? My guess is she just wasn't on the same page as you, she wasn't as into the relationship as much you were and didn't want to string you along. Consider it a blessing that you didn't waste anymore time.

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