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Insecurites over boyfriend watching porn!

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Question - (29 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyf looks at porn which in return makes me feel as i am not good enough for him!! i dont no what to do it affects me everyday even when were watching the tele.. and there are some naked girls on there to shopping where he can look at girls.. hes only been on it twice as far as i can proove but my insecurities are starting to scared me i love him and weve been together 9months.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009):

you deserve better.

you deserve a man to love and respect you.

give him this option..

if your not important enough to him to stop hurting you with porn, then your love is not strong enough, and he loses you.

i know its hard, im going through the same situation

but believe me you deserve the best you can get, never settle for any less.

i suggest having a whole bunch of girls nights and distract your mind with them, post break up

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (30 July 2009):

Porn is nothing more than a fantasy a means to add to your sexual pleasure. You shouldn't feel insecure because alot of people watch porn it is a movie and is not real. You need to become more secure with your body and your sexuality he doesn't seem to have a problem with you and is more so just being a man. I would really advise you watch it with him and see if your feelings start to change. In some cases if you let him watch it and seem casual with it he won't be as interested in watching it and will eventually become bored with it all. It is just like going to the strip club eventually it all gets old and runs it course.

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A female reader, Stacii:)  United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2009):

my boyfriend watches porn and we have a really good sex life, let him enjoy it & watch it with him you could get some tips lol x

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