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female
age
30-35,
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writes:hey everyoneOk i have this problem kinda thing. So i really love my best friend, shes amazing, id do anything for her to make her happy, but shes straight and has a boyfriend and im bi and im in love with her. and she knows all this the one thing she doesnt know is that i secretly hate her boyfriend, like i really do like him cuz hes an amazing boyfriend and nice guy but hes dating her and im in love with her. i want to be the suportive best friend, but then im really hurt cuz i really do love her, i dont know im i being selfish? i want to tell her that i secretly hate him but then i dont cuz i really dont want to hurt her, i dont know what to do cuz now it just hurts too much to keep it inside. should i tell her or not?thanks for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): No , keep it to yourself, you don't want it to seem that your feelings will get in the way of her having her life. She's straight your bi, please leave off her. Try and find someone for yourself, he sounds like he's good to her. Don't try and interfere with this good thing she's found.
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