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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello people, I'm in a predicament. I found a similar one on the website about someone being 'infatuated with their driving instructor' - well i'm in that situation too. I'm 18 and been having driving lessons since July I think. My instructor is kind and friendly and I didn't start feeling anything for him until not that long ago. Our lessons have been becoming more colloquial and we've been having great banter, even finishing off each other's sentences. He's been coming early to my lessons and dropping me off late too because we talk so much. I think he enjoys himself too because he smiles and laughs with me (except from when we are talking about serious stuff of course). I've been feeling that maybe he has some feelings towards me as well as I've caught him looking at certain areas of me... especially my legs, but I would never want it just to be sex between us if anything did happen. We've become good friends over the time of having our lessons and he's been an extremely good teacher as well. He is approximately in his 40s-50s and is ruggedly handsome.. probably fawned after by many other students too. I know he has a wife and kids but he doesn't wear a wedding ring any more (he did at the beginning of my tuition) and never mentions them any more, and talks about his mates a lot. Do you think this means he is single and I would have a chance? I would like to take this opportunity to say i am a) not a golddigger b) very attracted to his personality and c) totally ok with a may/december relationship. I really hope you give me serious answers and I am so grateful for any advice you give me. Thankyou in advance.
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reader, natasia +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I suppose that if he isn't married now, then there is no reason why you shouldn't have a relationship, although it is a huge age difference. However, I don't see how you can establish whether he is married or not, without asking him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Hi well am not going to judge you on who you like, we cant helo who we fall for. But if you do decide to act on your feelings you need to make sure that he is not still a married man because you dont want to become the bit on the side and it could ruin you if it came out everybody would be calling you a home wrecker. Next time you see him why dont you just casually ask him how his wife and children are doing and maybe make a comment about the missing ring, if he says they are still together then i dont think you should act on your feelings i think it would be best to keep them in. goodluck.
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