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In this affair he thinks of me as a booty call, but now I'm falling for him. Help!

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Question - (8 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2009)
A female Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Well where can I start. I am having an affair, we are both married. I don't understand what type of an affair it is? We only meet about once a week, and all we do is have sex. It's been going on for over a year. I am getting so attached that I miss him. I know my feelings are progressing, I think of him and miss him. I am however, not a stupid woman and know that I must be just a booty call, but I like him so much, help.

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A female reader, triedit Canada +, writes (8 March 2009):

triedit agony auntI think it's time you did some soul searching. How can you possibly fall for someone who clearly is only interested in you for sex? And are you really, deep inside, the kind of woman who is a cheat?

Time to let this guy go. He's not doing you any good. Most likely the relationship is eating away at your self esteem.

Try to fix your marriage or get a divorce. It's going to be hard. It's going to be painful and frustrating. But in the end, either way, you will be being true to yourself and being the person you want to be.

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