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writes: I'm married and I'm in love with my husband's friend. Last time I saw him I just couldn't take my eyes off him till he looked at me and we made a very strong, long eye contact. I had never looked into someone's eyes like that before. The gaze was so strong that I could not look away, till he tilted his head a little a gave a courtesy smile, then I looked down. Please, could someone here tell what that meant? I don't want to illude myself and start believing he may like me just because he didn't break my gaze. Men, please aswer me this, do men make eye contact even if you have no inetest in the person? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): yeah, but it's not that easy, he's married too, for 8 years. I have no doubt he may like me but I'm sure what he feels for me it's not strong enough for him to persue me, break a friendship of 12 years and end a 8 years marriage.By thw way, he is also 19 years old than me. If he feels I like him he may not take my feelings serious since I'm 26 and he's 45. But I do like him beyond any other guy I ever liked...
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (7 March 2006):
 A person with a concience, aint many of those on here. (lol)
Look, chance are yes this guy has some feelings for you and has held them in check whilst you have been with your husband. \it certainly sounds that way from what you have said. It may be difficult for you to get together tho with your past history and everyhting.
But I admire you for doing the honerable thing, honestly.
If you like him and he likes you go for it.
Good luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): willywombat- that's exatly what I'm doing, I just told my husband a want a divorce, I'd be unable to cheat, that goes 100% against what I believe and am. By the way, I'm not here to ask for advice on my marriage or what should I do. I was here to to find out if his friend may like me because he hedld my long eye contact till I broke...he also has called many times to talk with me knowing my husband wasn't home. He lives in another state, recently he's talking about moving or byuing a second home in CA, where we live. Once he called and the first thing he said it was" Hi Marie! The weather here is warm and umid and that reminds me of Brazil" I am from Brazil, could that mean that he thinks of me? Could that mean" and that reminds me of you" He is my husband's friend and not mine, so we should just talk when we are all together but he shows he likes to talk to me and has called me several times and the tone of his voice is sweet, soft, he makes little jokes and we both laugh. Also last time I saw him it wasn't just the gaze, when he first saw me we made eye contact again but it was brief because I broke, then he got up to hug me and gave me a very tight hug, it was so tight that I could feel my breast being squeezed against his chest and my breasts are small,and it was a long hug. Then after the hug I coudn't even look at his face because I was so afraid...Thanks for everybody that answer...
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reader, willywombat +, writes (6 March 2006):
Oh my God, you are married. Do your husband the courtesey of divorcing him before you start making *whoopie* with one of his friends.
Get a grip woman!!!!!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 He was probably wondering why his friends wife would be so out of line to keep staring like that. He might also have felt pity for his pal, being married to a woman like you. Why would you start down this path? You're only looking for trouble and are going to really hurt your husband.
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reader, shania +, writes (4 March 2006):
 I would say that he does find you attractive...the fact that he made eye contact suggests that.Trouble is your married.His friend does like you but would he betray his friend so that he could have his wicked way with you? Dont you love your husband anymore?...has it become stale and boring?...why dont you liven it up instead of seeking your thrills elsewhere.You could make your relationship better again....i think if you start to look else where it will be only short lived.Try and do some things together with your husband....things that you used to enjoy....try and remember wot you fancied about him in the 1st place....this other bloke is just a distraction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): Well, i can honestly tell you, i have only given that "look" to less than a handful of females. When he looked into your eyes, did it feel as if he was completely lost in your eyes? As if he spaced out for a few seconds? If he did, im am pretty sure he felt like someone hit a switch, and something sparked inside him when he looked deep into your eyes. Now the bigger issue you have here is, remember that you are married, and think about what you and your husband have. Do you have a happy marriage? Are these feelings you have for your husband's friend strong enough to actually pursue? If they are, would it be worth it in the end to start over again with a new person?I am not married, but i think i know what you mean as far as feelings. I am crazy in love with a girl at work. And i just wish i could go inside her mind and see what she thinks about me.But to be honest, if that is the same look i gave this girl when i first layed eyes on her, there is something there. By the way, i would soooo appreciate it if you could give me a woman's point of view on my situation. I'm also in desperate need of advice :(http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-crazy-about-this-girl-at-work.html
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