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*faah
writes:hi!I am in a very big dilemma and hope that you will be able to help me out. Feel free to give your opinions.Actually, i has been 3 months since i started to love a classmate. At first i proposed him but he said that he is already going out with someone else and we can remain just friends and that i can be hopeful that someday he will accept. We talk to each other,share our things together and send messages everyday to each other through mobile phones.I am very eager that he is accept my proposal but he is not doing so.. i really wants him and love him even if i know that he has a girlfriend..What should i do?? I am really confused.. i know its not right to love someone else boyfriend.. please help me.
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reader, ifaah +, writes (29 September 2007):
ifaah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help...
i myself would never agree that someone else is trying to seduce the one i love..i have now realise that what am doing is not not good..i should not interfere in his life
its better to remains just as friends because friendship will last forever..
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (18 August 2007):
What Flower Girl said. Don't interfere with his current relationship. How would you feel if the tables were turned? Imagine going out with him, while some other girl is trying to seduce him. You'll have to wait it out, but don't wait around. You might be blind to other potential good possibilities around you.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 It's OK to love someone else's boyfriend as long as you realise that you can't have them until they are separated.
Just have to carry on the way you are at the moment just being his friend and hopefully for you they will split and you can be together but until then he is out of bounds.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Don't worry hun i was in the same dilema, for me and him to get together it took ages i waited years. Really love in my opinon what can you do, its nearly impossible to forget him, i've tried it, it don't work or help. Well act yourself and if you want him so bad wait if u can/want. If u want him really badly now tell him again and say you can't wait for him because he's taking to long to accept you. Also you can't bare to see him wit some one else. Hope it helps. Give it a shot if you thinks it right. Tace care.
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