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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Im 25 and I have been in love with my best friend for the past 3 years. The problem is we're both female. and in my family that is an absolute no go zone. I know im not gay, but i have very strong feelings for her. very. im still very attracted to guys and other women don't seem to attract my attention, but when it comes to her. my knees go weak and i have butterflies when she's around. i want to tell her, but i dont want to lose her. i really dont know anymore. i would rather never tell her than lose her friendship, but what if she is really my soulmate and she never knew how i felt. oh, by the way she is gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): I believe that if you are experiencing these feelings for her then there are multiple reasons why. Only you know the answers. Maybe you have never had a person really be supportive and show you love or perhaps a relationship with a man may have left you with a bad experience. Whatever the reasoning love is love and you should not base being honest to yourself on what others will think. How do see her responding to the info that you love her? I think a good long talk with her about how you feel is the best bet and whateverthe outcome from the sounds of it I thnk she will still be your buddy. Better to know and let it out then agonize over it always
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