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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a very close male friend with whom there have lately been some 'benefit' action. He always warns me not to get attached and that it's just a FWB situation but truth is, I am attached. I can cope with not being his girlfriend, our friendship and his affection is enough for me even without the sex. We see each other and hang out about 4 times a week and talk everyday. But the idea of him with another girl kills me. What to do??
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reader, Lorenn.  +, writes (18 January 2010):
best friends don't stay best friends for long. But seriously. He aint worth it. Why is it convenient for him to just have it when he wants it :S he's obviously using you. It's meaningless.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2010):
You have to end it. He has made it clear that he wants you for nothing other than sex, and warned you not to get attached. He isn't interested in you as a girlfriend, so for your own sake, end it. You will only get more attached if you don't, and when he does find someone else, you'll be feeling left alone and used.
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