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In love with my brother-in-law -- should I tell him?

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Question - (21 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I think I am in love with my brother in law, I can't wait to see him, talk to him, dream about sex and relationships with him, but I don't think he feels same way about me although we do get on very well. I just don't know what to do, or to mention it to him?

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A male reader, Main Man United Kingdom +, writes (3 May 2009):

Main Man agony auntYou should tell your brother in law about how you feel about him. Yu never know he might secertly feel the same way about you. If he does you need to talk about what he intends to do about his marriage. Because you are both going hurt your sister if you have an affair with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

If you don't want to hurt the people who mean the most to you, and make thigns really, really difficult in the future, then deal with this on your own and try to move on. Acceot that he is unavailable and there is nothing he will be able to about your love for him. You will only be putting him in a really bad situation.

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A female reader, lucyluck United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2009):

well i think the worst thing you could do would be to tell him because if he wasnt feeling the same he'd probably tel your sister and it would become akward and he if did he still would deny it because hes married to your sister. The best thing you could do would be to take a break, away from him and find a new man. Also make a list of all the things you dont like about him, that should help! also think about how you would feel if you were your sister, just dont go there, it never works out. hes just a guy, hes not worth ruining your relationship with your sister for. good luck.

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A female reader, Krissypro89 United States +, writes (22 April 2009):

I would really think about this. If I were you I would not tell him and go on about your life. You would make problems for your self and with your husband. Good Luck

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