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In love with an actor and it is affecting my real life relationship??

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Question - (27 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *yanislovexoxo writes:

okay, so i am in love with an actor, ryan reynolds. the guy from the proposal, okay? its getting in the way of mine and my boyfriend's relationship. but ryan is so so so so so so so so hot. i have a poster of him in my room. and look at videos of him on youtube everyday. help! what do i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

Please remember that the character in the proposal is not him, he's just acting

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A male reader, 24yeahright New Zealand +, writes (27 November 2009):

I'm a guy and even I love Ryan Reynolds, but if it's interfering with your actual relationship then you've got a problem.

Snap out of it. You're being silly.

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A female reader, Jayney Y Australia +, writes (27 November 2009):

Jayney Y agony auntSorry, but this has to be said.....SLAP YOURSELF NOW! I'm surprised your boyfriend hasn't dumped you and found himself someone who can tell the difference between fantasy and reality. Celebrity worship is dumb. I know a lot of people do it, but doing it to the point that you are is, well, unhinged.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (27 November 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntSV is right, you're in love with the image of Ryan, not the real man. He is hot, no doubt, but I have also heard many stories of him being a high maintenance diva. Besides, he's married! In the meantime you have a man right here who loves you and wants to be with you. Don't throw away a good guy for a dream. After all you and Ryan have never even met!

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A male reader, SV United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2009):

This isn't love, it's a crush. You're "in love" with the image of Ryan Reynolds that's portrayed in the media. Who knows, in real life the guy could be a total ass and have qualities that you don't like. You'll just have to get over it because there's no way possible that you'll ever be together. Sorry to sound harsh but that's the truth. We all have celebrity crushes at some point and thinking too much about it could ruin your life. Find something to occupy your time

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