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writes:i want to be with a guy who i love and he loves me. the only thing that is stopping me be with him is the fact he is a drug dealer. i want to be with him so badly and very tempted to give it a try despite knowing the concequences if im in the wrong place at the wrong time if he gets caught. my friends and family all say im doing the right thing by staying away but why does it feel so wrong at the same time. is there anyone who is in the same situation or has managed to get them to stop. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Drug dealing is a very dangerous profession . It is illegal and against the law.
Those who are in this trade , either have a short life or end up behind bars. They cannot run away from the law.
You cannot ask them to quit because they make fast bucks upon the miseries of those drug addicts.
They stop for nobody until they are busted or wipe off the face of the Earth by their rivals .
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 March 2010):
Let me put it this way. What if you have a child, and the social services take it away because they think it's unsafe?. What if he gets you hooked on drugs? What happens if he gets arrested, and you lose your house, car and life? What happens if there is a revenge attack on him, or if another drug dealer tries to kill him? Or worse, you?
Listen to your family. This man is a drug dealer, and will either end up in prison, leaving you on the street, or end up dead, along with you.
You CANNOT change a man. NEVER think that you can.
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reader, DannyB  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 drug dealers will be drug dealers until they get caught or give it up and usually it ends bad. But, if you truly care about him and he truly wants to be with you then you should talk to him about it. He won't change unless he wants to or is given a choice.
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reader, lightshadowash  +, writes (17 March 2010):
not really but u should tell him how u feel if he feels the same way about u that u do to him.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Your friends and family are completely right on. You can just as easily fall in love with a really good guy. Drop this loser!
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