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writes: I'm 20 years old and engaged. Trouble is, I'm in love with someone else: my partner's best friend! I have been with my b/f for 2 & a half years. I started talking to his friend a few months ago. We were just texting at first then we met up a couple of times and he seemed to really like me. He told me how great I was. I felt so happy and sexy with hi,m something I don't always feel with my b/f.We did kiss, I regretted it but I like him so much it hurts whenI see him. I told him when me and my b/f had got engaged, I maybe shouldn't have gotten engaged in the first place and it was like he had gone off me. I never heard from him for a while so I text him and he did reply but he said he feels he is wasting his time on me which really hurt me as I have really strong feelings for him. But I know that I am better off with my b/f, as he treats me like a princess and doesn't deserve this, but I can't stop thinking about his friend. What should i do? I should be happy I am engaged but I feel so depressed and trapped, I don't know what to do. Please help me.L xx
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2005): For god's sake, don't marry your boyfriend. If you're already looking elsewhere you don't really love him enough to settle down and raise a fmaily with him for the next 25 years or more, do you?Forget his friend for now and focus on splitting up with the man you're with at the moment. When you are single and free you can then think about his friend.It is time to be honest with yourself. Your boyfriend is too nice to be with someone who doesn't really want to be with him. Be nice to him, break it off [it is kinder in the long run].After a few months you can then approach his friend...but they are 2 separate things [your current relationship and your feelings for his mate]. Keep them separate, deal with one at a time.
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