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In love but not happy, happy but in love???

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Question - (13 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *xtremley confused:( writes:

I have a huge problem.

I am still inlove with my ex, yet i am madly in love with my current gf. My ex and I have been together for over two years, she had and affair so I got fed up and started seeing my gf, I didn't tell her i was still in a relationship with my ex, but i know i sound so awful, as a person.

So I miss my ex so badly, she wants us to be together, I want to be with her, but my gf I have now is so caring, so loving, so everything, she is perfect - she takes me to work, she supports me, she tries in her way to help me, but I am not sexually attracted to her, she is 27 and still stuyding, while my ex, is 34 and already settled, i want to study but i want love and commitment, my ex was and i had problems she was ashamed of the age gap, but she loved me in her own way. While my gf now loves me and is so proud of me, and ugh! I don't know, who do i choose, i have to make a desicion I cannot hold them on strings, this is eating me, i don't know what to do. Please help!!!! My gf use to drink a lot and did drugs, but she said she stopped and she is trying to stop, what to i do, while my ex wants to marry me and have kids.

Please help!

like i said I am happy with my gf, but not inlove with her, while I am in love with my ex, but sometimes unhappy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009):

Don't go to your ex, she had an affair, you know what they say once a cheat laways a cheat. ALso the girl you have sounds like she is perfect

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