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30-35,
*uliiiaMarie
writes:I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend! The way he smiles and makes me laugh, the way we can talk for hours about anything and have the time of our lives i know he feels it to. He talks to me more than he talks to her, he spends alot of time with me and practically none with her. She talked to me about and said that she thinks he likes me but she said that she date him anyway cuz it didnt bother her cuz it was me. And at a dance i was dancing with this guy Timmy cuz i felt heartbroken and needed to take my mind of (him) but (he) was right in front of me dancing with my bestfriend and he was staring at me, he wouldnt even look at her just at me... i love him but i dont want to hurt her wat should i do!?
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reader, Missprettynpurple  +, writes (19 March 2010):
ok me an you both know it is against the girl code to go 4 a bf's bf.but u two rli seem to like each othe so heres my advice.you have to pick between ur bestfriend an this dream guy,who wld u rather have in ure life long term.but iwant u to first make sure that he rli likes u so u dnt end up wit noone or in other words likes u enough to choose u over her.
hope it works out
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reader, mikehimself  +, writes (19 March 2010):
If he really does like you, it is his responsibility to end things with your friend. But that is not enough. You cannot be with the guy that just left her. At the very least, she needs time. At best, she needs another guy to sweep her off her feet. Don't rush things. She may never accept you being together, in which case, you will have to choose. Him or her?
Best of luck.
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