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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all During the last six months i have been in a casual relationship. He used to contact me all the time and show clear interest in seeing me. Ten days ago i sent him a text saying i missed him and wishing him to have fun (he has been on holiday from then, back yesterday) and he didn't reply.What should i do ? Is this over ? Am i overreacting ?I miss him so much. I do not want to contact him again because i am afraid to come as needy and also, because i like him too much to afford the rejection.Thank you for your comments.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 He was in vacation, and just came back yesterday ! Chill.
From his point of view, everything is fine, and the communication level normal for a casual relation.
From your point of view...uhm. It sounds you want more than casual, and you do not handle casual that well already. The more you develop feelings, the worse is gonna be, are you prepared to that ?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): You say "casual" relationship but by what you've written it sounds like you have strong feelings for this guy. I was in a similar situation ended up falling for a guy who i was "casual" with, a few months later he stopped contacting me as much and it turned out he'd got a new girlfriend. This guy still comes to me for sex sometimes and it's just not right. When a guy has a casual thing with a girl 9 times out of 10 he just wants sex and doesn't see you as girlfriend material. As far as the not replying to your text goes, there could be a number of reasons why he hasn't replied. I think you need to talk to him about where this is going because clearly you have strong feelings for him but don't get your hopes up, these things rarely last.
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