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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:Please help.I have been with my partner for nearly nine year and have a child with him but recently while out drinking i kissed someone he works with. i get on with the guy as friends and regularly txt him. My partner isnt aware of what happened and i decided to split with him to sort myself out. I stayed at home for teh sake of our child but made it clear we were split. I had sex with my partner we agreed with no ties. I then get a txt from the guy io kissed saying he likes me but my partner has told the guys at work we have never been split up. He obviously thinks i have been lying to him and it will prob ruin the friendship.My partner thinks we should get back together and i agree but how do i tell this guy nicely and without the chance of his blabbing about us?
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reader, laki_topalovic  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 The most honest thing to do in this kind of situation is to admit to yourself that you were wrong...
The next thing is to tell your partner what happened between you and the other guy. He won't be mad about one little kiss that turned out to be a mistake, and you can get back together, trusting each other.
As far as the other guy, you could tell him that the kiss meant nothing and ask him not to speak to anyone about it...
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